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« on: December 12, 2009, 09:23:36 AM » |
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I just want to say that I am sorry about my erratic, manic posts...sometimes one writes or says things that are totally out there.
I received some terrible, tragic news that sent me into a tailspin...and I sort of lost it for awhile. My friend in Costa Rica just suffered from a terrible loss...her 9 year old son[who was the sweetest, most gentle boy] was very ill, and he passed away a little over a week ago. He had been sickly his whole short life...he had major thyroid problems, had surgery to remove part of his thyroid, and ultimatley succumbed to cancer. He was a really nice boy, my son loved him. I cannot imagine what my friend is going thru...I have experienced a lot of tragic death[as you long time babblers know] but the death of a child...if anything ever happened to my son, I would just want to die myself.
When I heard the news, it was like someone punched me in the stomach...I thought that I would be able to handle myself, and not go into a tailspin, but I was wrong. It's the same old story with me....any stress or bad news makes Paz spaz out and things get bad.
I am starting to feel better now, but I was bad for a few days.
At least he is not suffering or in pain anymore, I wish I could say the same for his mother.
Why does it always seem that there is a tragedy around the holidays?
It does make me think about how lucky and grateful I am for my family and all that we have...I just wish I could do more to help my friend.
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« Reply #1 on: December 12, 2009, 09:28:39 AM » |
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Ouch that really sucks for you and for them. Poor kid.
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« Reply #2 on: December 12, 2009, 11:18:16 AM » |
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that is terrible truely terrible at least like you said hes no longer in pain hes at peace now. but still thats very untimley and messed up im sorry for his parents most of all (not saying that it did not effect you). i would hate it if my little nephew or neice died id feel fucked up about it.... stay strong
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« Reply #3 on: December 12, 2009, 10:50:47 PM » |
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woW, You are a very strong woman to deal with such a tragedy as you have. I'm so sorry, I can't even imagine the pain. Prayers and positive thoughts to you and your family. Hugs.
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« Reply #4 on: December 13, 2009, 09:02:29 AM » |
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Thanks you guys...
I feel badly about my behaviour...when I get upset I get manic and angry...this is why I live a sheltered existence.
I just feel so sad for my friend....we just saw her & her son on Sept. 15th, and he honestly didn't seem that sick..and less than 3 months later he passes away. Not fair!!
Life goes on, but it's terrible that there has to be tragedy. I just wish that things could be happy all the time for all people everywhere...but unfourtunately that is not going to happen.
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« Reply #5 on: December 19, 2009, 07:10:41 AM » |
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I know what you mean. For the freaking out part. I have had several of those episodes. During which i am admitting ashamidly. That i walked out on my son. And father in law just told me i am never going to see my son again.
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« Reply #6 on: December 19, 2009, 08:27:32 AM » |
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aww man! that sounds pretty serious!
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« Reply #7 on: December 19, 2009, 06:26:52 PM » |
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I hope that you can work things out, Chase. I hope that your father-in-law tries to understand how hard it is being BP, and I also hope that he can show some compassion...it is the holidays after all. Peace on Earth and goodwill to all...I hope he takes that literally.
Fingers crossed it all works out.
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