I get the same way, it's not very fun to deal with.

What I've looked into doing is what my doctor called fast tracking. You take birth control pills like normal, but continue to take them for 3 months, then wait for a week, and then start again. You can also just take them like normal and stop every month. I've found it makes my mood a lot easier to control and deal with. There are still some problems, but it's a lot easier to manage.
