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« on: April 05, 2008, 05:21:01 PM » |
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A letter to a so-called friend.  Who are you? Your not the person you protrayed yourself to be. You are so condesending and narssisitic since I told you I am bi-polar. You act as if it makes me less intelligent that you.On the contrary most of us bi-polar's have a higher than adverage I.Q.You sit back and let your hubby wait on you hand and foot.You drink all day and I heard you also made fun of me the other day.Whats your problem? Aren't you strong enough to be my firend.You would have never know if I hadn't told you in trust.You talk bad about everyone.And I know your the one that leaked that secret I told you.And what do you have the nerve to do when I stand up for myself?  You ask if I'm taking my meds or if I'm experiencing mood swings.No!!!!,,,I'm just upset with you for being a bad friend,its not about me,its about YOU!! Well,ya wanna know what? I'll not be exposed to such rudenss and iggnorance. So don't act all surprized when I don't return your phone calls and drop off the face of the earth. |
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« Reply #1 on: April 05, 2008, 10:42:26 PM » |
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Funny how I make so many grammer mistakes when I'm upset.I over it now.
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« Reply #2 on: April 06, 2008, 04:05:51 PM » |
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Glad you're feeling better.=]
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-Jennie
Be careful of your thougths for your thoughts become your word.
Be careful of your words for you words become your actions.
Be careful of your actions for your actions become your habits.
Be careful of your habits for your habits become your character.
Be careful of your character for your character becomes your destiny..
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francie
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« Reply #3 on: April 06, 2008, 06:18:29 PM » |
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Hi Anna... seems as if you feel rejected by your "friend".. people are scared of illnesses, i've found. doesn't matter what the illness may be.
i remember when my mother was dying of cancer, my sister wouldn't visit.. well, she was honest about it and said she was "scared"... that's great, i betcha her fear couldn't match my mother's while she was going through the worst times.
same for bipolars.
i'm sorry to see you were feeling so rotten... i can't blame you.
take care ~~francie
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« Reply #4 on: April 06, 2008, 10:57:36 PM » |
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when we have a logical reason to be upset with someone and we share the upset feelings with them, they tend to blame it on your illness and say things like "are you taking your meds". It's a common thing. We may be "ill" but we still have the right to get pissed off at someone when they deserve it.
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« Reply #5 on: April 07, 2008, 09:40:17 AM » |
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Exactly.Some use our illness to cover their mistakes.This "friend" will no longer be part of my life.Concerning this person its not fear,believe me.It just a way for her to feel superior.This was just the straw that broke the camels back.She not healthy for me.
I tend to make friends with people that are not good for me.Not that I don't have some very good friends who are wonderful.But every now and then someone not so great for me slips into my life.I've noticed these people are the type that tend to be controling and kinda mean too.I wonder what I do to attract them.I must have victim written across my head as far as they are concerned.But thats not who I am,so when I stand up to these people they act all shocked.haha.They often will question my intelligence and my mental state,whenever I prove them wrong or confront them.Thats just a disarming tecnique.
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« Reply #6 on: April 07, 2008, 10:39:02 AM » |
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I think I have "sucker" wriiten across mine..Everyone knows that If they need me, I will do anything to help them, even if I am mentally unable and even if it creates a setback for me...This is where my husband comes in, and if you have one, I advise him to read this. I am uncapable of saying "no" and Robbie,my husband does it for me. It took a long time for this to happen, but when he had to start picking up the pieces of our life and well..of me, he began to shoo these peple off. It has cost me lots of relationships, but my mental condition has to come first, for my family as well as for myself...put yourself first, that's what my pdoc always tells me and I know it is still very hard for me to grasp that because I have always put everyone else first.
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« Reply #7 on: April 07, 2008, 10:56:55 AM » |
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I once had a roomie who once she found out I was "mental" as she said, turned into my worst enemy. Once I lost my keys, and I had to get a cop to force her to let me in, although I paid rent.
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« Reply #8 on: April 07, 2008, 11:03:29 AM » |
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just because of your illness?
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« Reply #9 on: April 07, 2008, 05:33:42 PM » |
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Clayton, that doesn't surprise me, and roommates can be the ultimate worst influences in our lives.
Sometimes we are attracted to toxic people, instead of those who manage to live and let live.
take care.
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« Reply #10 on: April 07, 2008, 09:26:27 PM » |
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he'll my hubby does this all the time the only differnce is when he calls me crazy I show him crazy!!!!
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people lose sight of who they are everyday so try to be more like yourself everyday that way you never lose who you are.
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« Reply #11 on: April 07, 2008, 09:30:58 PM » |
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lol hope..i have done the same during manic times...well hell, i've done it at depressed times too when the anger rages out...my husband continues to stay and help me fight this battle. Maybe he just likes the spice added to our lives.
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not a good life I think I want someone elses!!!!
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« Reply #12 on: April 07, 2008, 09:34:26 PM » |
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he'll mine calls me his banny rooster cause I go off like a fighting rooster.( a popular sport down here in the south)
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people lose sight of who they are everyday so try to be more like yourself everyday that way you never lose who you are.
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« Reply #13 on: April 07, 2008, 09:38:54 PM » |
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gotcha' I'm from the south...I speek your language
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not a good life I think I want someone elses!!!!
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« Reply #14 on: April 07, 2008, 09:41:07 PM » |
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what part?
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people lose sight of who they are everyday so try to be more like yourself everyday that way you never lose who you are.
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